Starting Over
One of the hardest thing I've come to term with within the past 3 years is the fact that the world will turn against you when you start working from within yourself.
When one reflect and allow oneself to grow, it causes a disturbance to the flow of society. It forces society to face the reality. The reality all wants to run from and hide from.
When one unlearn the way of society they unleash their true potential. This new side will be used against them for society fears the power one holds.
When one re-navigate their life and starts walking against the current of society. One's world would feel like it's falling a part. Like the world is against them but the truth of the matter is, this is only just the start to a new and better beginning.
When one resets their life and sets off to carve a path that reflect who they are. No matter how wrong it feels, one would always find peace and gratitude at the end of the day. At the end of the day it'll always feel right. For all the puzzle pieces to everything they've been seeking for has slowly been falling to it's right and respected place.
So, no matter what never stops fighting for who you are "Start over; my darling. Be brave enough to find the life you want and courageous enough to chase it. Then start over and love yourself the way you were always meant to." - Madalyn Beck
But, first one must know this. When one start, the closest people in one's life will be the first to judge them. They don't mean harm but they will go to war against one because the new side of one is foreign to them.
When one start the community will support one but when one is in their darkest moment, it's those that love one unconditionally that will walk and support one all the way.
Yes, darling, it'll be chaotic. You won't understand it in the moment. But, it it'll be worth it.
Don't try to change others. Continue to work on yourself. Trust yourself. Trust the process.
As a life coach and a spiritual healer, one of the things I love about what I do is I get to witness this beautiful healing journey from beginning to end. Not only am I there to guide my clients but I also get to enjoy the process and learn with them. From all the laughters to the tears of sorrows of the past. I know that someday these will all be some of their most treasure memories. A place of healing. A moment of growth.